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I have always been shy and i want to avoid the habit of needing other peoples compliments to make me feel better about myself. What can i do to boost my self-esteem and be more confident with myself?
Making Friends
I have always been shy and i want to avoid the habit of needing other peoples compliments to make me feel better about myself. What can i do to boost my self-esteem and be more confident with myself?
Making Friends
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Every day look in the mirror and tell your self todays going to be a better day. Point out all the things your thankful for and lean on your family and friends for support. I hope this helps you my friend=]
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One exercise that works is to make a list of all your positive characteristics. Think about what you like about yourself. Think about the friends you have – what do they like about you? Conquering shyness is not easy but like all problems you have to confront it rather than run away form the problem.
What you tell yourself is also extremely important, this is called self talk. Give yourself positive messages and you will feel more confident.
Your confidence will only grow as you achieve and overcome your difficulties so plan easy steps to take in order to beat your shyness problem. I have been helped by a number of sources in the past and there is so much information on my website about how to improve your confidence and self esteem. Check my site out and see how much it will help you..
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Hmm, put simply, you could try out the following:
Stop comparing yourself to others,
Accept yourself,
Keep a journal, and
Set some goals
These activities would help you focus on you, and your growth, and stop you from thinking that you are not good enough. You are.
It all comes from your thoughts at the end of the day. Think good thoughts really does work!…
Stop a panic attack
1. Give yourself positive, encouraging statements. Repeat them constantly and your mind will act on them. Work at feeling good about yourself and become more self-reliant. YOU are a capable person! Don’t allow those inner voices to convince you otherwise.
2. Build your confidence by picturing yourself accomplishing something, you have always wanted to do. Close your eyes and see every detail of how you would behave, how you feel about achieving it and how others respond to it. Now put it into action and when you achieve it you will feel elated.
3. Keep a journal. Write down your feelings and thoughts about situations and determine how you could make them better by looking at them in a different way. You will learn more about yourself and how you react to certain situations so you can stop and turn them around.
4. Be optimistic. When you catch yourself being a pessimist STOP! Think about all the good points that can be made about the situation and realize that any situation can be turned around easily to a positive one if your willing to try.
5. Establish goals based on what you can realistically achieve. Take it one step at a time and encounter any problems as a learning experience and keep on going until you reach it. Perfectionism is not necessary and invites stress and failure. Avoid it!
6. Rely on your own opinions of yourself and not what others think. Base your life goals on your values and not those of others. You are the only person who can say what is right for you!
7. Lighten-up, don’t take things so seriously or personally. Try to see the humor in everything. Your perspective will completely change if you look at things from a serious and humorous point of view.
8. Kick out your inner critic. When you notice you are having doubts or judging yourself, STOP! Tell yourself, I can do it! I am a good person and I can do anything I put my mind to. You have the power to control your inner critic, don’t allow it to control you.
9. Take at least 30 minutes a day for yourself. Use it to read, take a walk, meditate or pamper yourself. You will be better prepared to deal with problems and find solutions from the time you spend in solitude.
10. Relax in a chair, close your eyes and remember the last time you really laughed. Try to get that same feeling by imagining that its happening right now.
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Compliment urself…. thats ur remedy.
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