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7 signs you are suffering of low self esteem

G.Lefebvre


They are 7 signs that can indicate you are suffering of low self esteem.  Most people suffering of low self esteem may not even know they are suffering because they think that is how it should be.  They think that don’t deserve better.  No one should try to fight Low Self Esteem alone.  You need someone to help you as it is not easy to fight this decease.  Here are the 7 signs you are suffering or someone you know is suffering of low self esteem.

Guilt   Fear Ashamed Unrealistic expectation Lack of trust Perceived limitation Worth Less

 

These are very good signs that someone is suffering of low self esteem.  If you are or know someone who has 1 or more of these signs, make sure to get help immediately.  It is important to know that someone who suffers of low self esteem does not need to have all the signs from above.  Only 1 can be enough.  Just imagine that you think you are worth nothing, what do you think you are going to amount to?  Nothing, obviously and you certainly would not want that for you, a member of your family or a friend.

They several steps you can take to overcome low self esteem. It is very plausible that if you are suffering of low self esteem, you may be suffering of Anxiety Attacks or also Depression. The main area for you to improve is your self confidence. The next few steps should help you do that.

Jump in both feet. Exercise, may be join a gym or exercise on your own but the important item here is remember that any exercise will make you feel better about yourself. Eating fast food or eating too much will make you feel tired and leave you without any energy.

The following are ways to help build your self esteem. Remember, it is always harder to build something than destroy it so you will have to work at it religiously.

Give yourself compliments when you do something well Learn a new trade and I don’t necessarily mean get a new job but it could be Spend time with good friends, positive friends, stay away from people that are always negative Help others, help a friend in need, volunteer with an association that helps people in needs Don’t feel the need to be in control of everything

Low self esteem affects millions of people each year.   If you would like to learn more about how to learn the simple steps to overcome low self esteem, visit http://www.squidoo.com/overcoming-low-self-esteem-tips



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How Having Self Confidence Changes Your Life

Jason Johns


Can you imagine what your life would be like if you had more self confidence? How much would you be able to enjoy life if you had higher self esteem?

Many people may feel that they are just not fulfilled because they haven’t got the confidence they should have. Think about it, if you don’t have a lot of confidence then you may not get ahead in your job, you may not get on with the opposite sex, you may even feel you get taken advantage of by your friends.

Self-confidence is something you can so easily have in your life. Many people are going through life labouring under the false assumption that confidence is something you are born with. That’s rubbish!

Confidence is something you learn. As a child you learn it from your parents, your friends and the people around you. Without the proper encouragement and belief a child will end up with no confidence. It’s up to the parents to learn to encourage their children in order to build that confidence and self-belief.

However, not all is lost! Even as a teenager and an adult you can learn more about having self confidence. It’s relatively easy to do. All you need is the motivation and will to do it. Without motivation or desire to improve your confidence you will be struggling to get anywhere. However, if you want to do it, then you can, and you will be shocked how easy it is to improve your self-confidence.

Too many people make having more self confidence complex and difficult but it’s not. All you need to do is learn some tools and then apply them to your life. You can make it that complex if you want to, but you really don’t need to when there are simple self confidence techniques you can use.

Rather than focus on lots of tools and techniques all at once, just take one, focus your attention on it with a laser like quality and master it. When you have mastered it and applied it to your life, then move on to the next self confidence technique.

Notice here I said “applied it to your life” in the above paragraph. Far too frequently I see people who sit there and tell me “I know that” when talking about self-confidence. If you know that, then why aren’t you living it? There’s a big difference between knowing it and KNOWING it. When you KNOW self confidence then you have applied it and mastered it.

If you are keen to improve your self-confidence and change your life then find some self confidence techniques that you can use. Find techniques that you are happy with and can use. Stick to them and apply them to your life and you can boost your self confidence at last.




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