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John Dashfield


When times are tough and uncertain one of the most important qualities that will get you through is self-confidence. Have you noticed that people who feel confident about themselves and the future seem to get so much more out of life? Is accessing your own inner confidence more easily and often something you would like to do?  

I’ve heard it said before that a lack of self-confidence is the basis of all under-achievement. Often, a lack of self-confidence causes people to doubt themselves, which results in a pessimistic outlook on life. When you access those feelings of confidence and self-assurance it becomes far easier to look to the future with optimism and enjoy life in the present, doesn’t it?

When it comes to your goals, a strong belief that you can, and will accomplish them will make all the difference.

Before we talk more about how to feel more confident let’s get clear on what the rewards are. I don’t know specifically what it is that you desire but the kind of outcomes that many people enjoy could be:

More success in your career or business More money A healthier immune system Feeling enthusiastic Being Happier and more fulfilled Better relationships Greater willingness to try new things

What are some of the ways that greater self-confidence would make a huge difference in your life? What would you do if you knew you couldn’t fail?

Self confidence is for anyone

While there’s no doubt that some people seem to have natural self confidence in abundance it’s something that can be both learned and earned through approaching life in a certain way:

It’s important to get on your own path in life and do what’s right for you. This means living in accordance with your own deepest desires, core values, and what makes you happy rather than living the expectations of other people.

Do what you’re good at. You’re far more likely to fulfil your potential when you do what comes naturally to you and where your interest is drawn. Accept that there are some things that you’ll never be that great at and let go of the need to be good at everything.    

Earn confidence it by overcoming challenges and obstacles. This means both internally, in your mind, and externally in the outside world. As you transcend fears, anxieties, and moments of doubt you feel good about yourself.

Love yourself. Not in a way where you think you’re above others but by valuing yourself and your uniqueness. Stop comparing yourself to others and become entirely comfortable with who you are.

Take action. Stop thinking too much and do something. Nothing is more motivational than getting stuck in and doing something rather then waiting for the ‘right time’ or when you ‘feel right’.

Train your own psychology to support you by learning to interrupt and replace any negative patterning. Read books about self development and inspirational people. Listen to audios in the car or when travelling. Go to seminars to learn more. Get a coach. Do what builds your energy rather than drains it.

Avoid taking yourself too seriously. Be able to laugh at yourself and remember that in the big picture few things are that important.

Now imagine going through life with high confidence. Imagine seeing, hearing, feeling and knowing that you are, right now, in absolutely the right place on your journey. Create that deep inner certainty that you can, and you will handle anything that comes your way and leave the past behind…now…how good does that feel?

Written by John Dashfield

Dashfield Coaching and Development

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What you need to achieve everything you want? Some would say that money, other that discipline and other would point to your innate skills. The point is that everything would be worthless if we lacked one thing: self confidence.

Of course, self confidence derives from knowing that you have the right type of skills and interesting goals to achieve. The rule of thumb says that the clearer the goal is, the higher self confidence gets. And, truth to be said, there is little people can do without it. Even the most capable body and mind won’t do anything good without the self confidence. It form a base on which every human activity rests on. Without it, you won’t achieve any success – you wouldn’t even know what success means!

It is relatively easy to see if someone is self confident or not if only you know where to look. The way someone walks, communicates, works or socializes will tell you loads of the individual’s self confidence or lack of it. Even a simple handshake can tell you a lot about his or her amount of self confidence.

A good thing about the self confidence is that it tends to infect other. Oftentimes even a single self-confident person can change the attitudes of everyone in a room. Sometimes it seems as if the world itself decided to help such man. A confident person attracts friendships, but commands respect, too.

Your self confidence forms the basis of everything else in your world

It is impossible to do anything for real if you’re not self confident. Low level of confidence will slow down your steps and prevent you from taking initiative when you need it. Why? Because low self confidence is able to paralyze a man, body and soul at the time he or she needs to make a decision quickly. The old saying “you must stand for something or you will fall for anything” is true. And if you stand for something, only your self confidence will keep you together.

The good (or bad, depending on the point of view) thing is that the self confidence is neither genetic nor hereditary. Confidence has to be gained or learned, improved or practiced. It won’t come to you al by itself, but you can easily rise it in your self.

The fighter and the wreck

“No pain, no gain” as the saying goes. What lets people to take risks and profit from that while most others are held back? The answer is: their levels of self confidence – they may make people risk, fight and lead others without any regard of failure. Remove it from someone, and all is left is a human wreck.

Be Confident: the only way to do it

Confidence is not just another asset. In today’s world, self confidence is a basis of your survival; both at work and at home. A good job requires being good at the interview. Forcing a raise can work only if you are confident enough. Self confidence gets all the attention. This in turn brings acceptance love, peace and energy. The energy makes you a good worker and even better human. And this, in turn, causes your confidence to grow even more. Get to this upward spiral and watch how you entire life changes!