It is difficult to get a partner , but it’s not because of you as a person , and it probably isn’t your attitude . It could be you’re trying to find someone in the wrong place . For most people the common place to go on the pull is to the local night clubs or pubs , but in reality this is one of the hardest places . Just think, when you go to a nightclub , With drunk people and loud music , how is it easy to meet someone? . No one can hear each other, and even if they could , It will be drunken nonsense . If you’re lucky or you even want this, a one night stand is the best you’re going to get from a club .
An alternative to try is the gym . It’s a good place to meet people . While working out you can interact with other people , chat about life in general , and ask for advice about the equipment your using . If there is a pool facility you can go in there , and meet someone you could ask out for a drink You may see someone there a few times, and get the courage to start a conversation maybe in the sauna, or maybe on the treadmill . Week after week you can try again .
Alternatives to the gym are other clubs. Such as swimming, martial arts, night classes and even the library. You will find after a while that these are much easier places to meet someone than a loud night club. Failing this though, a sure fire place to meet someone that wants the same things as you, has the same interests at heart and is looking to meet someone just like you is…. online! Yes, don’t get freaked out by this, it’s become the norm in todays society that people go online to meet.
Everyone has such hectic lives with work and hobbies that there is just no time to meet people any more, and while it’s surrendering the this new culture of fast food lifestyle we are living in, wanting things now… it is also a great revolution and absolutely no harm in it at all. In fact studies show that a lot of successful relationships come from dating sites every day. 
There are a lot of dating sites, including free dating   that you can try first before you decide to swallow your pride and pay for such a service.